Alberta Gay

Alberta Gay
Born Alberta Williams Cooper
January 1, 1913
Rocky Mount, North Carolina
Died May 9, 1987(1987-05-09) (aged 74)
Los Angeles, California
Cause of death Bone cancer
Occupation Domestic, schoolteacher
Spouse(s) Marvin Gay, Sr. (m. 1935–1984; divorced)
Children Michael (born 1933)
Jeanne Gay (b. 1937)
Marvin Gaye (1939–1984)
Frankie Gaye (1941–2001)
Zeola "Sweetsie" Gaye (b. 1945)

Alberta Cooper Gay (January 1, 1913 – May 9, 1987) was an American domestic worker, schoolteacher and the mother of American recording artist Marvin Gaye. Born in Rocky Mount, North Carolina, she married Gaye's father, minister Marvin Gay, Sr., after relocating to Washington, D.C., in her early twenties. She was the only other person present in the murder of her son committed by his father.

Biography

Early life

Alberta was born Alberta Williams Cooper on New Year's Day, 1913, in Rocky Mount, North Carolina.[1] She had three sisters, Pearl, Tolie and Zeola, and a brother, Aster,[2] but she would endure a troubled childhood while growing up in North Carolina: her father once shot at her mother during an argument.[3] Although her mother survived, her father would later die in a psychiatric hospital.[3] Alberta told David Ritz that she felt she really didn't have a father, and her family didn't put her in a school until she was eight years old.[3]

At 20 years of age, she had a love child, a son named Michael, and as a result her mother sent her to live with a relative in Washington, D.C., where she met minister Revd. Marvin Gay in 1934[3] and after a year of courtship, the couple married on July 2, 1935.[3] The young couple first settled at an apartment located at 1617 First Street SW, only a few blocks from the Anacostia River. The First Street neighborhood was nicknamed "Simple City" owing to its being "half city, half country".[4][5]

Due to his belief he couldn't raise another man's child, Marvin Gay eventually sent Alberta's son Michael to live with Alberta's sister Pearl.[3] Michael Cooper later learned as a teen that Alberta was his mother, according to Alberta's daughter, Jeanne. Allegedly, when Michael began living with his half-siblings, he told young Marvin to stand up against his father's abuse; when he did, Marvin Gay, Sr. responded by sending Michael to live with his aunt, Zeola, another one of Alberta's sisters, in Detroit. However, Jeanne Gay said Michael Cooper was moved to Detroit without the alleged confrontation between father and son.[5]

Family life

Children

With Marvin Gay, Sr., Alberta had four children. The first, Mable Jeanne, was born in 1937. Marvin, Jr. followed on April 2, 1939. A younger son, Frances "Frankie", followed in November 1941, with a younger daughter, Zeola (named after her aunt), following in 1945. With her husband, she converted to the strict House of God, an eccentric Christian sect that took its teachings from Hebrew Pentecostalism.[6] Since her husband barely worked jobs, Alberta worked as a domestic worker, cleaning houses in the Maryland and Virginia areas to provide income for her family.[7] Gay, Sr. fathered another son, Antwaun Carey Garey, in 1970 by another woman during one of his extramarital affairs without Alberta's knowledge.[8]

Marriage to husband and domestic work

Alberta often found herself caught up in the middle of her husband's level of brutal "disciplining" of their children. She also confided that her husband hated young Marvin. She told Ritz in 1979, "My husband never wanted Marvin. And he never liked him. He used to say he didn't think he was really his child. I told him that was nonsense. He knew Marvin was his. But for some reason, he didn't love Marvin and, what's worse, he didn't want me to love Marvin either. Marvin wasn't very old before he understood that."[9] By the end of her husband's ministerial period, he developed an addiction to alcohol and began developing an interest in cross-dressing. Alberta later explained that her husband "liked soft clothing. Soft things of all kinds attracted him. He liked to wear my panties, my shoes, my gowns, even my nylon hose. Marvin saw him like that sometimes."[7]

When asked if she had thought of leaving or divorcing her husband, Alberta admitted she did but "felt sorry" for her husband due to his own abusive upbringing and stuck for him because he needed help. She also said that her husband wasn't ready for children because he didn't understand how to treat them[5] and prior to her death, she told David Ritz that she had thought of leaving her husband many times before he shot Marvin, but had been unable to do so due to a lack of courage.[10] Her daughter Jeanne stated her mother's strong beliefs in the House of God religion prevented her from divorcing her father.[11] Marvin Gaye would say of his mother as someone who "lived by principles".[11] Of his mother, Marvin said, "her kindness and generosity were legendary. She took in people and fed neighbors, even when we were still dirt poor. The woman suffered so, and yet her suffering seemed to make her stronger. The older I've gotten, the more I've wished that all women were like my mother."[11] In comparison to his volatile relationship with his father, Gaye said, "if it wasn't for Mother, who was always there to console me and praise my singing, I think I would have been one of those child suicide cases you read about in the papers."[5]

Alberta's marriage to Marvin Sr. was always contentious and he was a womanizer who cheated on her and violently abused her. He was also resentful that he was not the breadwinner due to earning very little as a pastor.[12][13]

Marvin's marriage to Anna and house moves

When Gaye married his first wife, Anna, his duet partner and friend Kim Weston said that Anna reminded him strongly of his mother.[14] Gaye continually supported his mother throughout his life, and after becoming successful, he moved his parents out of the by now derelict projects and into a large house that he had bought for them on Fifteenth and Varnum in the black middle-class section of Washington, DC.[15] In 1973, he moved his parents to a residence at 2101 Gramercy Place in the West Adams district of Los Angeles, and the rest of the family moved to California as well.[16][17][18]

Marvin's depression

By 1979, Marvin had moved his belongings there and David Ritz interviewed him at the house that year as they worked on a biography. Noting her son's battle with depression, Alberta spent months with her son in Maui and in London.[19]

Kidney surgery and Marvin's final years

In October 1982, Alberta Gay was rushed to a hospital in Los Angeles after falling critically ill to a near-fatal kidney infection that required surgery.[20] Her sons Marvin and Frankie rushed from Belgium to be by her side,[20] but Gay Sr. was in Washington, D.C., to fix up and sell their old house in Varnum Place and unwilling to return to California to support Alberta during her surgery or recuperation. Marvin believed that Alberta was owed half the money in the sale of the old Washington, D.C. house, but Gay, Sr. would not acknowledge that he had sold it.[21]

During Gaye's final years alive, he and Alberta slept together at Alberta's bedroom. Around that time, Gaye's parents had virtually separated, with Marvin Sr. sleeping in an adjacent bedroom a few blocks away from Alberta's. By the time of the events of April 1, 1984, the couple hadn't slept in the same bed for almost a decade.[18][21]

Son's death

Main article: Death of Marvin Gaye

On March 31, 1984, Alberta and her husband had an argument over misplaced business documents, including an important insurance policy, which Alberta was blamed for misplacing.[22] When the argument spilled over to Marvin's bedroom, Marvin awoke from a sleep and immediately took his mother's side, demanding his father to leave her alone. Gay, Sr. left the room without incident that afternoon but, according to Alberta, carried on rambling through the house.[23] The next day, April 1, the arguments started again. This time, Gay, Sr. yelled for his wife to come downstairs from Marvin's room. Marvin again intervened, telling his father if he wanted to talk to her to do it directly. When Gay, Sr. refused, Marvin warned him not to come in his room. Ignoring Marvin's demands, Gay, Sr. marched to his room to argue with Alberta, prompting a despondent and angry Marvin to yell at him, and then pushed and shoved him out of the room into the hallway. According to Alberta, Marvin hit his father and also kicked him.[24] Alberta eventually convinced her son to leave his father's room. At approximately 12:38 pm, Marvin Sr. returned to Marvin's room carrying an unlicensed Smith & Wesson .38 caliber pistol that Marvin had given him as a Christmas present, shooting Marvin in his right chest area. The shot perforating his vital organs, including his heart, proved to be fatal. Marvin was shot again at point-blank range. Alberta had already run out of the room following the first shot and pleaded for her husband to not shoot her next.[24] Marvin Gaye later died from his wounds after arriving at the California Hospital Medical Center.[25]

Final years, divorce and death

Following her son's murder, Alberta Gay filed for divorce from her husband after 49 years of marriage. Two days later, however, she posted a bond to bail him out of jail after his arrest for their son's murder, because she still sympathized with him and didn't believe he should suffer any longer.[10][26] At her son's funeral, she kissed her son on his forehead.[27] Alberta struggled with bone cancer for the remainder of her life and was taken care of by her daughter Jeanne at the latter's Burbank home. In 1986, Alberta founded the Marvin P. Gaye, Jr. Memorial Foundation in dedication to her son to help people with drug and alcohol problems.[2] Before the memorial opened, however, she died on May 9, 1987, at St. Joseph Medical Centre in Burbank after years with bone cancer, at the age of 74.[2][28]

Notes

  1. ↑ Ritz 1991, pp. 5-6.
  2. 1 2 3 Jet 1987, p. 57.
  3. 1 2 3 4 5 6 Ritz 1991, p. 6.
  4. ↑ Gaye 2003, p. 3.
  5. 1 2 3 4 Ritz 1991, p. 13.
  6. ↑ Ritz 1991, pp. 5-11.
  7. 1 2 Ritz 1991, p. 19.
  8. ↑ "Gaye's second wife calls play 'completely and utterly exploitative'". February 16, 2013. Retrieved October 13, 2013.
  9. ↑ Ritz 1991, pp. 6-7.
  10. 1 2 Ritz 1991, p. 338.
  11. 1 2 3 Ritz 1991, p. 20.
  12. ↑ http://artcreationforever.com/content/marvin-gaye.html
  13. ↑ http://www.worldcat.org/wcpa/servlet/DCARead?standardNo=046501769X&standardNoType=1&excerpt=true
  14. ↑ What's Going On: The Life and Death of Marvin Gaye
  15. ↑ Ritz 1991, p. 83.
  16. ↑ "Marvin Gaye House". Retrieved June 5, 2013.
  17. ↑ Dial Them For Murder. Los Angeles Magazine. Jan 1998. Retrieved June 5, 2013.
  18. 1 2 Ritz 1991, p. 330.
  19. ↑ Ritz 1991, pp. 265-280.
  20. 1 2 Gaye 2003, p. 148.
  21. 1 2 http://msoldschool.ning.com/profiles/blogs/marvin-gayethe-agony-and-the
  22. ↑ Ritz 1991, pp. 330-332.
  23. ↑ Ritz 1991, p. 332.
  24. 1 2 Ritz 1991, p. 333.
  25. ↑ Ritz 1991, p. 334.
  26. ↑ Ritz 1991, p. 339.
  27. ↑ Ritz 1991, pp. 335-336.
  28. ↑ http://articles.latimes.com/1987-05-09/news/mn-4644_1_alberta-gay

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