Lovestruck

For other uses, see Lovestruck (disambiguation).

Being lovestruck means having mental and physical symptoms associated with falling in love: 'love-struck. It means to be hit by love...you are hit in your heart by the emotion of love'.[1]

Historically, being lovestruck has been viewed as a short-lived mental illness brought on by the intense changes associated with romantic love. Avicenna, a Persian polymath, viewed obsession as the principal symptom and cause of romantic love sickness. This diagnosis has been out of favor since the humoral model was abandoned, and since the advent of modern scientific psychiatry.

Metaphors

The concept is associated with a set of metaphors attempting to convey the speed and intensity of the (mainly visual) process of 'falling in love instantly; placing great importance on the moment of being love-struck'.[2]

Alternately, there is Cupid's arrow; whilst Uncle Toby uses an image from musketry: 'I am in love with Mrs Wadman, quoth my uncle Toby - She has left a ball here - added my uncle Toby - pointing to his breast'.[3]

Psychoanalysis

The twentieth-century saw the concept of love-sickness reconceptualised by psychoanalysis. As early as 1915, Freud asked rhetorically, "Isn't what we mean by 'falling in love' a kind of sickness and craziness, an illusion, a blindness to what the loved person is really like?"[4] Half a century later, in 1971, Hans Loewald took up the theme, comparing being in analysis 'to the passions and conflicts stirred up anew in the state of being in love which, from the point of view of the ordinary order and emotional tenor and discipline of life, feels like an illness, with all its deliciousness and pain'.[5]

Symptoms

A 2005 article by Frank Tallis suggested that being utterly romantically lovestruck should be taken more seriously by professionals.[6]

"For love-struck victims, the world appears altered. Replacing the flatness of ordinary experience is a fullness".[7]

According to Tallis, some of the symptom clusters shared with being lovestruck include:

More substantively, the estimated serotonin levels of people falling in love were observed to drop to levels found in patients with OCD.[8] Brain scan investigations of individuals who professed to be "truly, madly, deeply" in love showed activity in several structures in common with the neuroanatomy of obsessive–compulsive disorder (OCD), for example the anterior cingulate cortex and caudate nucleus.[9]

Criticism

Some who would "disagree with Frank Tallis's fundamental thesis that love should be seen as a mental illness...concur that at the extreme and under certain circumstances love sickness can drive a person to despair".[10]

They would suggest however that "'disordered love'...can be understood more clearly in terms of attachment theory".[11]

Literary examples

See also

References

  1. ↑ Jennifer Overton, Snapshots of Autism (2003) p. 58
  2. ↑ Richard Feldstein et al, Reading Seminar XI (1995) p. 28
  3. ↑ Lawrence Sterne, Tristram Shandy (Penguin 1976) p. 554
  4. ↑ Janet Malcolm, Psychoanalysis: The Impossible Profession (1988) p. 9
  5. ↑ Quoted in Malcolm, p. 127
  6. ↑ Tallis, F (2005). "Truly, madly deeply in love". The Psychologist 18 (2): 72–4.
  7. ↑ Kathryn Allen Rabuzzi, Mother with Child (1994) p. 117
  8. ↑ Marazziti D, Akiskal HS, Rossi A, Cassano GB (May 1999). "Alteration of the platelet serotonin transporter in romantic love". Psychol Med 29 (3): 741–5. doi:10.1017/S0033291798007946. PMID 10405096.
  9. ↑ Bartels A, Zeki S (November 2000). "The neural basis of romantic love". NeuroReport 11 (17): 3829–34. doi:10.1097/00001756-200011270-00046. PMID 11117499.
  10. ↑ M. J. Power/T. Dalgleish, Cognition and Emotion (2008) p. 342
  11. ↑ Power/Dalgleish, p. 351
  12. ↑ Clayton G. MacKenzie, Emblems of Mortality (2000) p. 75
  13. ↑ A. S. Byatt, Possession (1990) p. 417
  14. ↑ J. M. & M. J. Cohen eds., The Penguin Dictionary of Quotations (1964) p. 42

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