Mata Sahib Kaur

Mata Sahib Kaur (Gurmukhi: ਮਾਤਾ ਸਾਹਿਬ ਕੌਰ, Shahmukhi: ماتا صاحب کور) was the third wife of Guru Gobind Singh.^[1][2] Born Sahib Devan, she was the daughter of Ramu of Rohtas dist. Jhelum.^[3] Mata Sahib Kaur was born on 1 November 1681 at Rohtas. She was offered to be a bride of Guru Gobind Singh by her father Bhai Rama, a devout Nanak Naam Leva Sikh, and the nuptials took place on 15 April 1700 at Anandpur.^[2]

Marriage proposal

When the proposal was brought for discussion to Anandpur, the Guru at first refused, as he already had two wives and four sons. The dilemma before the parents of the girl was that, the proposal having become public, no Sikh would be willing to marry a woman who had been betrothed to the Guru. The Guru eventually agreed to the marriage, but made it clear that his relationship with Mata Sahib Devan would be of a spiritual nature and not physical.^[2]

As most women desire to have children, the Guru proclaimed her to be the Mother of the Khalsa and since then novitiates have been declared to be the sons and daughters of Gurū Gobind Siṅgh and Mātā Sāhib Devāṅ.^[2]

During the battle of Anandpur Mata Sahib Kaur was split from the holy family of the tenth Guru during the siege of Fort Keshgarh where, along with Mata Sundari, she was escorted to safety to Sri Damdama Sahib by Bhai Sahib Bhai Mani Singh Shaheed.

Mata Sahib Kaur accompanied Guru Gobind Singh to Delhi and then on to Nanded whilst Mata Sundari stayed back in Delhi.

It was in Nanded that Guru Gobind Singh informed Mata Sahib Kaur of his time to leave Earth for his heavenly abode at which he commanded her to leave for Delhi to be with Mata Sundari. The Guru gave Mata Sahib Kaur 5 weapons as his reminder and his Insignia (with which she issued 9 Hukkamnaama's or Letters of Command for the Khalsa). Mata Sahib Kaur resided in Delhi with Mata Sundari and lived a life of Simran and Seva (selfless service) for the panth (nation).

Mata Sahib Kaur died in 1747 at the age of 66 and was cremated at Gurdwara Bala Sahib, New Delhi. Her memorial stands close to the one commemorating Mata Sundari.^[2]

Presence during Amrit Sanchaar

There are different views among Sikh historians on her presence during this event. As per Mahankosh, Bhai Kahn Singh Nabha Mata Sahib Devan was present during creation of Khalsa Panth^[4] but Twarikh Guru Khalsa refute this claim.^[5] According to Mahankosh, Mata Sahib Kaur participated in making Pahul by adding sugar wafers to it but Twarikh claims, Mata Jito (First wife) put sugar wafters to the Pahul and Sahib Devan was not married to Guru Gobind Singh at that time.

See also

• Mata Jito
• Mata Sundari

References

1. Dalbir Singh Dhillon (1988). Sikhism Origin and Development. Atlantic Publishers & Distributors. Retrieved 2011-07-30.
2. Ashok, Shamsher Singh. "Sahib Devan". Encyclopaedia of Sikhism. Punjabi University Patiala. Retrieved 5 September 2015.
3. Surinder Singh Johar (1999). Guru Gobind Singh: a multi-faceted personality. M.D. Publications. p. 139. ISBN 978-81-7533-093-1.
4. ਰੋਹਤਾਸ ਨਿਵਾਸੀ ਭਾਈ ਰਾਮੂ ਬਸੀ¹ ਖਤ੍ਰੀ ਦੀ ਸੁਪੁਤ੍ਰੀ, ਜਿਸ ਦਾ ਆਨੰਦ ੧੮. ਵੈਸਾਖ ਸੰਮਤ ੧੭੫੭ ਨੂੰ ਸ਼੍ਰੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਗੋਬਿੰਦ ਸਿੰਘ ਜੀ ਨਾਲ ਹੋਇਆ. ਕਲਗੀਧਰ ਨੇ ਇਸੇ ਦੀ ਗੋਦੀ ਪੰਥ ਖਾਲਸਾ ਪਾਇਆ ਹੈ, ਇਸੇ ਕਾਰਣ ਅਮ੍ਰਿਤਸੰਸਕਾਰ ਸਮੇਂ ਮਾਤਾ ਸਾਹਿਬ ਕੌਰ ਅਤੇ ਪਿਤਾ ਸ਼੍ਰੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਗੋਬਿੰਦ ਸਿੰਘ ਜੀ ਉਪਦੇਸ਼ ਕੀਤੇ ਜਾਂਦੇ ਹਨ. ਅਵਿਚਲ ਨਗਰ ਪਹੁੰਚਕੇ ਦਸ਼ਮੇਸ਼ ਨੇ ਇਨ੍ਹਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਦਿੱਲੀ ਭੇਜ ਦਿੱਤਾ ਅਰ ਗੁਰੂ ਹਰਿਗੋਬਿੰਦ ਸਾਹਿਬ ਦੇ ਪੰਜ ਸ਼ਸਤ੍ਰ ਸਨਮਾਨ ਨਾਲ ਰੱਖਣ ਲਈ ਸਪੁਰਦ ਕੀਤੇ, ਜੋ ਹੁਣ ਦਿੱਲੀ ਗੁਰੁਦ੍ਵਾਰੇ ਰਕਾਬਗੰਜ ਵਿੱਚ ਹਨ.#ਮਾਤਾ ਜੀ ਦਾ ਦੇਹਾਂਤ ਮਾਤਾ ਸੁੰਦਰੀ ਜੀ ਤੋਂ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ ਹੋਇਆ ਹੈ. ਸਮਾਧੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਹਰਿਕ੍ਰਿਸਨ ਜੀ ਦੇ ਦੇਹਰੇ ਪਾਸ ਦਿੱਲੀ ਹੈ. ਦੇਖੋ, ਦਿੱਲੀ., Mahankosh, Bhai Kahn Singh Nabha
5. Twarikh Guru Khalsa, Page 177, Topic: Teesri Shadi